P146 Teletext 146 Nov 6 21:01:00        ——————  ————————————————  —— GAY MATE SECRET   Dear Nick, My best mate and me both have girlfriends. A few weeks ago, however, something happened between us, which has left us both confused. We kissed! I don't know why it happened, but we've both talked about it and agree it was nice. Does this mean we're gay now, and should tell our girlfriends? Anon 14 year old ——————————————————————————————————1/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Nov 6 21:01:01        ——————  ————————————————  —— GAY MATE SECRET   Nick replies, You and your mate kissing doesn't mean you are gay. It just means that you are going through adolescence — a time when your sexuality is evolving. It is very common for teenagers to feel attracted to their own sex and even to experiment with kissing and caressing. Don't feel bad about it, but if it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it. ——————————————————————————————————2/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Nov 6 21:01:11        ——————  ————————————————  —— GAY MATE SECRET W  Nick replies, Many teenagers get confused and worried when they have sexual feelings about same sex friends. You've gone one step further and kissed your mate. This often happens in the absence of girls to experiment with. In two months you could feel totally different. You don't need to do or declare anything. See what happens. ——————————————————————————————————3/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Nov 6 21:00:00        ——————  ————————————————  —— HAVE I LOST HER?   Dear Nick, For years I've only had eyes for one girl. The problem is I never see her alone, as there're always friends around. Sometimes I used to think about asking her out, but always put it off. Now I think I may have blown my chances — she's got engaged. Should I make a move now — she's not hitched yet, so I may have a chance? ——————————————————————————————————4/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Nov 6 21:00:00        ——————  ————————————————  —— HAVE I LOST HER?   Nick replies, Declaring your unspoken love to a girl who is just getting engaged is not a good move. You may have carried a secret love for her for years, but she obviously hasn't for you if she is getting on with her life in a very definite way. She's been having a real love affair. To speak now will almost definitely end in rejection. Learn from this. ——————————————————————————————————5/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, P BOX 297, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Nov 6 21:00:00        ——————  ————————————————  —— HAVE I LOST HER? W  Nick replies, Seeing the girl of your dreams getting engaged may make you declare your love for her before she gets married. This is not a good move. You have to move on. You've been happy loving her from afar in your fantasy world, but her engagement has burst your bubble. Now it's time to find a real love affair of your own. Start a real relationship with an available girl. ——————————————————————————————————6/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen