P146 Teletext 146 Oct16 21:01:00        ——————  ————————————————  —— AM I A PEEPING TOM?   Dear Nick, Recently I've noticed that from my bedroom window I can see right into the neighbour's house. Sometimes, at night, I can see a woman changing, and I can't stop looking! At the time it's a real thrill, but afterwards I feel so guilty about spying like that, and worry that m—ybe I'm a pervert. Anon lad ——————————————————————————————————1/6—— 60 words max. Letters l—y be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Oct16 21:03:01        ——————  ————————————————  —— AM I A PEEPING TOM?   Nick replies, Peeping through your window at a neighbour getting dressed is something most people have done at some time. It's a natural, curious attraction to something which feels a bit naughty. You are not hurting anyone, except perhaps yourself by feeling guilty. You need to get to grips with this before you start feeling that there is something wrong with you. There isn't! ——————————————————————————————————2/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Oct16 21:00:00        ——————  ————————————————  —— AM I A PEEPING TOM?   Nick replies, Having pangs of guilt because you've peeped at a female neighbour shows that you have an active conscience as well as an active curiosity. If you don't stop straight away you will soon, because your conscience is pricked. You don't need help. You have the sensitivity to question your actions - a very good sign in a young man. ——————————————————————————————————3/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Oct16 21:00:10        ——————  ————————————————  —— LOVE AND LAUGHTER   Dear Nick, Last week, for the first time since I started going out with my girlfriend, I admitted that I was falling in love with her. I thought it was a brave thing to say, but she looked like she might puke. Instead of falling into my arms, she just laughed and said I didn't know the meaning of the word! What now? Joseph, 15, Surrey. ——————————————————————————————————4/6—— 60 words max. Letters l—y be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Oct16 21:00:10        ——————  ————————————————  —— LOVE AND LAUGHTER   Nick replies, Plucking up the courage to tell your girlfriend you love her is brave. But you don't always get the reaction you want in these situations. Her laughter lby have been a reaction to your seriousness. Ask her what she meant by you not knowing the meaning of love. Talk about love and what it means to you both. Don't mbke big declarations! ——————————————————————————————————5/6—— 60 words max. Letters l—y be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen
P146 Teletext 146 Oct16 21:01:11        ——————  ————————————————  —— LOVE AND LAUGHTER   Nick replies, The first time you tell someone you love them should be because it is what you feel in your heart, not because you want them to say it back. It's always a risk the first time, as you don't know what the reaction will be. Talk about it, find out how you both define and feel about love. This will take the scariness of the word away. ——————————————————————————————————6/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Scene Green Big Screen