P484 Teletext 484 Oct11 21:54:01    ——————————————————————————————————————— JOHN GRAY The story according to John Gray goes, men originated on Mars and women on Venus. The Martians flew to Venus, and in the beginning they got on well... They made allowances for each other until they all flew to earth, lost their memories and problems began. "I dreamt up this metaphor back in 1984 when ET was popular," he says. "No-one would try to change ET, they'd study him, but women try to change men." ——————————————————————————————————3/6—— Relax! Take time out for Tea Break 487 GO GREEN FOR A BETTER WORLD p460 Stars Food Healthwise TV tonight
P484 Teletext 484 Oct11 21:51:11    ——————————————————————————————————————— JOHN GRAY From his 11 year marriage (his second) John Gray says the most important thing he's learnt is communication. "After a hard day at work men need to balance that work by going into their 'cave', and having time to be quiet, while women relax by conversation. "Men need to work at being romantic. Once a month I make sure we take time away from work and the family just for one night, and I often give flowers." ——————————————————————————————————5/6—— What's on the box tonight? 421 ARE YOU FIT FOR ANYTHING? p673 Stars Food Healthwise TV tonight
P484 Teletext 484 Oct11 21:11:01    ——————————————————————————————————————— JOHN GRAY John Gray's self-help empire has now grown to such an extent that he receives over 300 calls a day in the jS "Most of them are thanking me for saving their marriages," he says. "And others ask me how they can get their husband to read my books. "I say, 'open a chapter about men from one of my books, and ask your partner if it's true'. It gets him interested as all guys like to be experts." ——————————————————————————————————6/6—— Gray's London seminar 0171 938 3788 GO GREEN FOR A BETTER WORLD p460 Stars Food Healthwise TV tonight
P484 Teletext 484 Oct11 21:13:51    ——————————————————————————————————————— JOHN GRAY Men are martians (we've always had our suspicions), and now one particular martian has come out and admitted it, (and is making millions in the process) John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus (Thorsons £8.99) and other similarly titled books, has landed in London to spread the word. The youthful 44-year-old self-styled self-help guru plans to save marriag—s and make life easier for British men. ——————————————————————————————————1/6—— By Jacqui Hazell HRT & MENOPAUSE see HEALTHWISE p559 Stars Food Healthwise TV tonight
P484 Teletext 484 Oct11 21:52:00    ——————————————————————————————————————— JOHN GRAY Almost 10 million people worldwide have now been converted to John Gray's language of love. Men and women are different, he says, and relationships only work if we accept this fact. He says: "People in the 90s are tired of blaming the opposite sex for their problems. I came in like a breath of fresh air and explained the differences "It's about better understanding of each other without blaming anyone." ——————————————————————————————————2/6—— What's cooking in Jenny's kitchen? 486 STOP GARDEN THIEVES! p482 Stars Food Healthwise TV tonight
P484 Teletext 484 Oct11 21:50:10    ——————————————————————————————————————— JOHN GRAY Up until the last 20 years everyone knew that men and women are different, says John Gray. Now we're confused. "Women are moving into the man's world of work and vice versa," he says. "There's a chance for real intimacy, but we don't know how to get there. "Men and women's expectations have grown, but it's still possible to have lasting relationships we just need new rules." ——————————————————————————————————4/6—— What's on at the movies? 610 RECIPE: SWORDFISH KEBABS p486 Stars Food Healthwise TV tonight